I think, over time, if there is one thing I have learned it is this; the most difficult question there has ever been is when to walk away. Few things last forever. Most were never meant to do so. The problem is, being only human (at least this applies to most of us), we seem to have a great deal of difficulty knowing when to open our hand, and just let go. Sometimes we find ourselves going to extreme measures to hang on to something, often something that will inevitably slip away anyway. No relationship, position, or affiliation is guaranteed permanent, yet we tend to think less of ourselves if we even consider stepping away of our own volition. We feel like we have failed, let ourselves and others down, quit on our commitment. Recently I found myself outside the limits of conventional wisdom while trying to hang on to something that was, for all intents and purposes, already lost. Instead of swallowing pride and retaining some dignity I sullied my reputation, and made myself look quite foolish. Ah, live and learn I suppose. I know others who have done much better. Fine examples of wisdom, poise and self-respect. I am lucky and honored to have known such people. I just hope they all know……. that I am glad to have known them, and they are missed.

Gar Windgust Esquire